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Spiritual maturity

 
 
Spiritual maturity represents an important natural junction in human development. Once crossed, we sense significant changes. We begin seeing reality in a clearer, more correct manner and in doing so, we shed many of our childish views and opinions. It can certainly be said that in order for a person to actualize his purpose, he must first reach a state of spiritual maturity. This maturity also represents an enhanced  state, in which such things occur.

 Human beings who have crossed this junction are described as mature adults, whereas those who have not yet done so are described as immature or as childish.
Even though we tend to link the concept of "maturity" to a young man or woman who have reached a certain age, such an assertion is far from the truth. Quite a few of these may mature only later in life while others might never do so.

 Similarly to the concept of personal maturity, the human collective contains nations, some of whom are more mature than others, depending on their past circumstances.

 There is a time in one's life, in which it is only natural to be childish, and a time in which it is only natural to be mature. These periods cannot be strictly defined. It can be said that the period of childhood is the period of time required for a person’s internal self to evolve and reach a level that can be described as mature. If this period is extended, it means the person's spirit has to overcome greater obstacles.
 

What can a spiritual mature person achieve, compared to an immature one?

Since a spiritual mature person is on a higher spiritual level, therefore he is more developed and can execute higher intelligent activities and behave more positively. A mature person, for example, more easily expresses appreciation and love to his fellow man and can realize positive goals, which a childish personality finds difficult to achieve. In other words, a mature person has a greater ability to bring Goodness into expression.

 It may be said that the more mature a person is, and the more he is free of spiritual inhibitions, the more he will be able to act in a positive and improved manner, and his β consciousness will contain a greater percentage of α consciousness.

The childish person

A prolonged childishness stems from several spiritual 'blockages', which inhibits many aspects of man’s natural expression, resulting from a deficient upbringing and from a dictatorial atmosphere.

 This spiritual state, is the cause of man’s negative expressions . For example: If the path to love is blocked, his emotional urge will look for a different 'exit' route, and will express itself as hatred.

 A childish person that cannot adequately explain his position or convince others of the correctness of his way, will attempt to force others to act in accordance with his wish. He is also the type, who due to his inability to achieve his goals honestly, will apply immoral means for their achievement.

 In his early years, the immature person expresses his personality by,(among other things), displaying charm and physical beauty, as a method for getting spiritual food from mature person. As he grows older and his physical beauty declines, his inability to function properly fills him with resentment and with feelings of inferiority. As this happens, he begins to steer further and further towards evil, attempting, by means of this, to gain what he lacks. This is probably the primary reason for his desire to control others. He will even blame society for his suffering and will attempt to extract revenge. In doing so, he brings upon the human collective the disasters humanity has experienced throughout the course of human history.

 No matter how rich this person may be, no matter how many times he has humiliated a fellow man, he still cannot obtain the peace of mind and joy, which a mature personality achieves.


Like a child seeking security behind his mother's apron in order to function in the adult world, certain childish persons find their security behind various odd aprons, in order to somehow function in this world. These aprons may be a profession, an institution, a leader, a religion or even God. Among the strange things I have witnessed was an immature doctor, who hid behind conventional medicine's apron in order to somehow function in this world, and  became very offended when presented with a solution achieved through complimentary medicine.

 Similarly, an immature religious man hides behind God's apron for the same reason. Thus, his dependence on this source increases and he attempts, in an exaggerated way, to seek His help rather than taking calculated risks, being responsible for his deeds and act for the achievement of his goals, thus letting his own natural forces do whatever is required to succeed.


The childish person's control over a mature one

The childish person's inferiority complex creates often an urge to control the mature people He attempts to do this by exhibiting an artificial sense of superiority. This urge develops and activates several other aspects of his personality. We may discern a powerful aggression and occasionally, a suppression of the other, with the aim of gaining control. This control, if achieved, is dictatorial - coercing and forcing the other to comply with the dictator's demands. It must be stressed that most dictators belong to the childish personality group, who for whatever reason, did not achieve spiritual maturity.
 Dictators are found not only in totalitarian regimes, but in democracies too, and also in homes. The background to all these cases is similar. The dictator is accustomed to coercion because he cannot explain himself and convince others in a logical and moral manner. Violence between human beings stems from a similar inability.

 

Forms of approach made to the two personality types - by God, by the ancient world's philosophers and by today's regimes

God's approach to man

It can certainly be said that God utilizes two approaches: One for the childish personality and one for the mature.

 His approach to the childish person- In this approach, God utilizes the fear factor (awe). This pressure factor is expressed in delivering his wishes in the form of a divine command. We even recognize the use of threats, in order to get the immature personality to carry out His "Word" (it seems this is the correct way for achieving this aim). It will also bring the immature personality to an early stage of maturity, at which point he will discover the value within the divine content, leading to its better expression in the future. This does imply the existence of a stage, at which he will carry out His "Word" (if he indeed would) at a very low level, mechanically and wrongly. A level even lower than the level  he is at.

 His approach to the mature person: This type of person is approached in an entirely different manner. One based on respect, love, persuasion and free choice. The mature person does not need to be pressured; his spiritual level is sufficiently high so as to enable an acceptance based on understanding and even of love, of what God proposes. What will affect and encourage him most will be the approaches made with love, present in God's words, which are mentioned in this web site various chapters. Based on his abilities and of his own free will, he will apply initiative, creativity and love in order to actualize his perception   of God's words essence.

The philosophical approach
In looking at the ancient world's philosopher’s declarations, we also discern the same types of approach designed for these two personality types. The philosophical principle of "man is a positive creation", is an approach made to the mature person, who will come to do good by means of persuasion and by being provided with a personal example (see Confucian philosophy).
 We recognize within the same philosophy, an approach made to the childish person, going by the principle   that "man is a negative creation". Hence:
 In order for this type of man to behave properly and walk in the path of Good, it is crucial to have moral rules that must be obeyed, punishments to deter him from doing Evil and suitable guidance for the doing of Good.
Note: If we examine the divine approach, made to bring man to the doing of Good, we find it remarkably similar to the philosophical approach.

 The difference between the two is that God's approach is, in its main part, aimed at the immature adult whereas the main part of the approach shown by the ancient world's philosophers is aimed at the mature adult.


The regime's approach, regardless of whether it is democratic or dictatorial.

Both types of government have the approach of "man is a negative creation", but regrettably, without any suitable guidance for bringing him to the doing of Good.
 In doing so, those regimes miss the essence, which this important philosophical principle comes to serve.

 We view with concern the fact that it is the democratic, liberal regime, which allows itself to refrain from providing this important guidance. It is therefore unfortunately necessary to classify this type of regime as bad for man in general and for the immature individual in particular. Therefore, those with a childish personality have little chance of improving in it. As a result, they exploit this convenient regime to her egoistic benefit and to the detriment of the mature society they live in.

 In order for a regime to act to the benefit of its population, people who are moral and spiritual mature must  run it.

 As for the regimes' suitability to the two personality types: it may be said that the mature individual is better suited to a democratic regime, while a childish individual is better suited to a dictatorial one.

   
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life's most urgent question is: what are you doing for others?
Martin Luther King, Jr.

 

The value of a man should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive.
Albert Einstein

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You must accept the truth from whatever source it comes.
Maimonides

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The spirit of democracy is not a mechanical thing to be adjusted by abolition of forms. It requires change of heart.
Mohandas Gandhi