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 Self-image

 

Enfolding man's essential problem as well as its solution

Psychological literature describes man’s self-image as a sort of internal picture, depicting our subconscious concept of the type of person we are; our subconscious inner truth. This internal picture was constructed through our various self-beliefs, which were unconsciously formed, particularly in early childhood. Opinions and beliefs that fit this image are accepted and subconsciously, join this inner truth, while opinions and beliefs that don't match are rejected.

 All our activities, feelings, behavior and even our capacities and personality fit this image. Namely, we act in accordance with the inner truth that our self-image depicts. Furthermore, despite our efforts and wishes, we cannot act differently. For instance, a man who believes he's a failure will always find a way in which to fail, despite his best efforts to do the contrary, and a man who regards himself as a constant victim of injustice, will find circumstances to justify this belief. The same applies if a man believes that he is static (incapable of self-development), inferior, negative creature, positive  creature, etc.


According to the presented principle, a person who holds a inner picture as a negative creature, will consequently do evil, while at the same time rejecting the doing of good. This self-image forms the main obstruction to man’s positive  development, and so it causes him to do evil by nature.
 The direct result from this are all of the harsh and horrible things that people do to one another and sometimes to themselves.
Therefore the inner perception that man is a negative creature is the main reason for his basic problem (the evil doing) along human history.
 

It can therefore be said that this inner truth slows-down or accelerates the child's positive development and leads him/her to act accordingly.
 

Improving man's self-image
 In order to truly live, it is essential that your
inner picture will be one with which you can act in the real world. A self-truth you can believe in and trust. A self-image you will not be ashamed or embarrassed about, which you will feel free to express and be honest with it. An inner picture capable of recognizing your weak points as well as your strong ones. Your internal picture must be close to the personality and functioning you exhibit.

 When this image is whole and secure, you are proud of it; you feel self-confident; free to be you and creatively expressing yourself. Then you function optimally. When it is incomplete and you are ashamed of it and try to hide it, your creative expression is obstructed. You grow hostile, tough and dealing with you becomes difficult.


What do we all long for? It can confidently be said that each of us yearns for a greater experience of "real life" that is to say,  more  joy, happiness and love. This will be actualized by the proper expression of our values, urges, capabilities and natural talents. If, however, we obstruct their expression we will detach ourselves from our God-given gifts and the life urge in us, and will rapidly approach death.

 It was already some 2500 years ago that the prophets of Israel came up with the idea of Shuva (returning), encouraging the children of Israel to its realization. According to them, man can self-improve so far  as to erase his own past. Present reality suggests that this idea, like so many other ideas propagated by the ancient world's prophets and philosophers, remained almost entirely without application, due to the circumstances of those times.

 This website  as well as other literature of its kind, claims that it is possible to improve one's self-image. It has been found to be impossible to think positively about something so long as your opinion of it is negative. Many experiments have proved that when your opinion of it becomes positive, you will be able to achieve the desired improvement without needless resistance or strain. Those same internal forces within you, which previously caused negative phenomena - will now work to eradicate it.

 

The  solution of people's basic problem

According to all the conclusions mentioned, it can be assumed that:
 Holding a  
self-image as a positive  creature will bring about your positive development and doing the true good, while at the same time you will reject the doing of evil.
Possessing this self-image is a primary condition for achieving the improved  mentioned functioning.

 Periodically residing in the Sabbath's holiness or meditative state, will dissolve your self-image as a negative creature  and will promote the appearance of the proper one: That you are a positive,  wise and evolving Creature.
Achieving this will encourage your positive development with all it entails.

The big problem facing man today is getting man to accept this opinion, and the even bigger problem is to accepting it as being the truth.
Due to his past wrong habits, man is closer to the opinion that he is a negative creature, which makes it much harder to accept the truth that he is a positive creature, with all that it entails.

The moral education, or spiritual self-improvement in this website presents the solution for  man’s essential problem.
 Therefore this process of education must be seen to be the most important national and international goal.

 

 

Our self image, strongly held and essentially determines what we become.
Maxwell Maltz

There is nothing in the world more shameful than establishing one's self on lies and fables.
 Wolfgang von Goethe

As long as people believe in absurdities, they will continue to commit atrocities.
Voltaire

A nation or civilization that continues to produce soft-minded men purchases its own spiritual death on the installment plan.
Martin Luther King, Jr.

We forge the chains we wear in life.
Charles Dickens

 

Life's most urgent question is: what are you doing for others
Martin Luther King, Jr.

 We make a living by what we get,  we make a life by what we give.
Winston Churchill

It's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln

The sole meaning of life is to serve humanity.
Leo Tolstoy

It is not doing the thing we like to do, but liking the thing we have to do, that makes life blessed.
 Wolfgang von Goethe
Nothing carries more potential for positive change than individual acts of human kindness.
Jamie Winship

We must become the change we want to see in the world.
Mohandas Gandhi